Working 80 hours a week, sleeping less than what is human possible and just in general having shitloads on my mind - I ve been able to practise something that I really have not been able to do before.
I am one of those people who is wide open. And it is taken advantage off by vampires. Those energy suckers, u know? And I can be way too nice to just tell them to back off. But now, I'm just not able to take it in. Not physically and not mentally. This has given me the eyes to see when it's actually happening. I haven't been able to before. And now I see it clear as daylight. The worst ones are the ones where I try and try to find solutions to their problems - and the actually seems to fuel them into a more and more victim focused mentality. They are not looking for solutions.
Signs to look for: It is the ones who are capable of turning any theme of convo into something about themselves, turning into negatively charged stories about how something has happened to them, mostly without any fault of their own. They don't want to change. They thrive on the pity and the sympathy that YOU supply - and that's what drains you...
Do you recognize it? Further on, they will go a long way to make you react. They will charge the situation from all angles, to find out what makes you tick. All the while hiding behind their own self righteous motivations. Believe you me, they honestly believe they are in their right to act in this manner...
Do not let them capture you. And leave them behind.
My Life here in beautiful Lofoten.... Life in general, in pieces, and in bits. I hope to colour your world with my thoughts and I hope to share my world with my loved ones...I guess my focus is both micro and macro oriented...and all in all i think that Love conquers all barriers...
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